It's such a small world, sometime you gotta fight for what's yours

Ok so this past weekend I was in a wedding it was going nice until I saw who the singer was, the singer was someone who I met yrs back that instantly tried to give me the draws and some dome. I politely declined but he got pissed because I didn't want any (it was our first and last date). He's such a freaking whore that he didn't even recognize me so I decided to play it cool until I saw him wink at my dude. I promise you if it wasn't for me being at a wedding I think I might have lost it and molly whopped that hoe!

Hiatus

I've decided to take a break from blogging to pen my very first book. I know you're probably thinking "I didn't know he was a writer"......... lol hell I didn't know I was a writer either but I'm a firm believer of being spontaneous and I have the writing bug right now so hopefully it pays off.......anyway I will be checking in here and there, much love and success to anyone that might read this.

UGH!!! Bi*** you don't know me

OK, so yesterday I was at the register in the cafeteria at my job about to pay for my food when this chick that I haven't seen in GOD knows when comes up and says, "Hey, how have you been?" I said, " I've been great, how about you?". Before I knew it this chick took her nasty ass hands and rubbed my face (A BIG NO NO) talking about "what's all this?" (I'm growing a beard........something different for the Spring).......THEN this girl touches the little bit of stomach that I do have and says, "OMG and when did this happen?"

She pissed me off so much that I almost cussed her out. But I held my tongue and just nodded and smiled. I knew if I would have dug into that ass it wasn't going to be pretty so I left alone.


Fast forward to 15 minutes ago the new receptionist at my job is about to get her plastic ponytail snatched off and thrown across the room if she says something else about me. One of my coworkers came to me and said the receptionist (who make the assumption that I'm gay, nothing confirmed or denied) wants to fix me up with one of her friends.................Bi*** I'm far from lonely, single, or desperate..........and again BI*** YOU DON"T KNOW ME!!!!!

Question

Do you twitter? I'm in the process of building my twitter page so I can post random thoughts throughout my day. Is anyone else considering joining twitter?

What the hell?!

Ok so I was talking to a friend (we'll call him Mark) about a mutual friend (we'll call him Nate) of ours. Mark was telling me that Nate has so many requirements to even consider dating someone, so me being me I asked what are the requirements? Mark says the guy has to have a job, a car, his own place , and some good money. I laughed my ass off and asked how and the hell is he asking for all the things that he's NOT bringing to the table? Mark laughed and said it works sometimes though until the guy gets tired of taking care of Nate.

I truly don't understand this concept, how can someone that doesn't have their own shit together make demands on a person that does? I had to blog about it and ask two questions.

1. If you didn't have the basic things that a 30 year old man / woman should have (a job, some money, their own place), would you set the bar so high for a potential mate or would you come humble?

2. If you were financially stable, had a job, a car, and your own place would you take care of someone that had none of those things?

I answered NO to both.

Thoughts?!

Ryan Leslie

Simply put..... this LP is truly not to be slept on. In all honestly I'm loving every track on the disc. I've had the disc for about 2 weeks now and I've been listening to it everyday.

Check it out and let me know what you think!

What happened to the days of being an individual that happens to be in a relationship?

I was talking to a friend the other day and he was so happy to tell me about what he and his other half were doing. That's fine and dandy my only problem was when I would ask how things were going with HIM, he would answer by saying WE or OUR (talking about him and his other half). Now don't get me wrong, I'm happy that he has someone special in his life but that s#&* can become annoying. I was so annoyed that I had to blog about it.

Question:
What happened to the days of being an individual that happens to be in a relationship?


Note to reader: There is no hateration on my end, I'm in a great relationship. I just think that we shouldn't get so wrapped up in a relationship that we stop being an individual.