It All Comes Down To Love

I've finally discovered something. Love for yourself surpasses every and anything. Because if you don't love yourself you can't truly love anyone else and they can't truly love you for that matter.

Appreciate Someone (by Chrisette Michele)

Someone is going to appreciate me...
I like to rub his feet.
I like to cook for him.
I sing him songs and write him
love letters and recite him poetry
from the bottom of my heart.

Someon is going to appreciate me...
Every word I say I mean.
I love him with candlelight dinners.
I love him with warm honest hugs.
I love him with kisses.

Someone is going to appreciate me...
When I kiss him I pay attention
to his reaction and study the way
he feels.
I want to learn to kiss him right.
When I love him I pay attention
to his reaction and study the way
he feels.
I want to learn to love him right.
I want to please him.
Someone is going to appreciate this...

My time
My money
My gifts
My flowers
My power
My integrity
My poise
My etiquette

My love scenario:
I rub his feet. It's my way of saying
"I enjoy your body."
I buy him gifts. It's my way of saying
"thank you for your company."
I think highly of my man.
He is a hard worker.
He is gentle.
He is kind.
He pleases me, and he wants to
And I am pleased to please him.

I enjoy loving.
It's my desire and he desires me.

I am not angry with my past.
I am not defeated.
I love freely...
Free of yesterday's bondage.
Optimistic.

And someone is going to appreciate
that...
I dress for him.
I smell good for him.
I stay up late and conversate,
what's on his mind, I make time
for him.
I stay fit for him.
I have no problem being for him.
Someone is going to appreciate me...
And be for me, like I am for him,
because a good man, I appreciate.

It's such a small world, sometime you gotta fight for what's yours

Ok so this past weekend I was in a wedding it was going nice until I saw who the singer was, the singer was someone who I met yrs back that instantly tried to give me the draws and some dome. I politely declined but he got pissed because I didn't want any (it was our first and last date). He's such a freaking whore that he didn't even recognize me so I decided to play it cool until I saw him wink at my dude. I promise you if it wasn't for me being at a wedding I think I might have lost it and molly whopped that hoe!

Hiatus

I've decided to take a break from blogging to pen my very first book. I know you're probably thinking "I didn't know he was a writer"......... lol hell I didn't know I was a writer either but I'm a firm believer of being spontaneous and I have the writing bug right now so hopefully it pays off.......anyway I will be checking in here and there, much love and success to anyone that might read this.

UGH!!! Bi*** you don't know me

OK, so yesterday I was at the register in the cafeteria at my job about to pay for my food when this chick that I haven't seen in GOD knows when comes up and says, "Hey, how have you been?" I said, " I've been great, how about you?". Before I knew it this chick took her nasty ass hands and rubbed my face (A BIG NO NO) talking about "what's all this?" (I'm growing a beard........something different for the Spring).......THEN this girl touches the little bit of stomach that I do have and says, "OMG and when did this happen?"

She pissed me off so much that I almost cussed her out. But I held my tongue and just nodded and smiled. I knew if I would have dug into that ass it wasn't going to be pretty so I left alone.


Fast forward to 15 minutes ago the new receptionist at my job is about to get her plastic ponytail snatched off and thrown across the room if she says something else about me. One of my coworkers came to me and said the receptionist (who make the assumption that I'm gay, nothing confirmed or denied) wants to fix me up with one of her friends.................Bi*** I'm far from lonely, single, or desperate..........and again BI*** YOU DON"T KNOW ME!!!!!

Question

Do you twitter? I'm in the process of building my twitter page so I can post random thoughts throughout my day. Is anyone else considering joining twitter?

What the hell?!

Ok so I was talking to a friend (we'll call him Mark) about a mutual friend (we'll call him Nate) of ours. Mark was telling me that Nate has so many requirements to even consider dating someone, so me being me I asked what are the requirements? Mark says the guy has to have a job, a car, his own place , and some good money. I laughed my ass off and asked how and the hell is he asking for all the things that he's NOT bringing to the table? Mark laughed and said it works sometimes though until the guy gets tired of taking care of Nate.

I truly don't understand this concept, how can someone that doesn't have their own shit together make demands on a person that does? I had to blog about it and ask two questions.

1. If you didn't have the basic things that a 30 year old man / woman should have (a job, some money, their own place), would you set the bar so high for a potential mate or would you come humble?

2. If you were financially stable, had a job, a car, and your own place would you take care of someone that had none of those things?

I answered NO to both.

Thoughts?!

Ryan Leslie

Simply put..... this LP is truly not to be slept on. In all honestly I'm loving every track on the disc. I've had the disc for about 2 weeks now and I've been listening to it everyday.

Check it out and let me know what you think!

What happened to the days of being an individual that happens to be in a relationship?

I was talking to a friend the other day and he was so happy to tell me about what he and his other half were doing. That's fine and dandy my only problem was when I would ask how things were going with HIM, he would answer by saying WE or OUR (talking about him and his other half). Now don't get me wrong, I'm happy that he has someone special in his life but that s#&* can become annoying. I was so annoyed that I had to blog about it.

Question:
What happened to the days of being an individual that happens to be in a relationship?


Note to reader: There is no hateration on my end, I'm in a great relationship. I just think that we shouldn't get so wrapped up in a relationship that we stop being an individual.

Unacceptable

Right now I'm at a loss for words. How did this happen? Someone that is recognized as the young face of beauty was reduced to this at the hands (and teeth of her BOYfriend).

Thoughts?!

OMG

So I went to the dentist 2 weeks ago and she said I'd be a good candidate for braces, I was like HUH?! She said my teeth are in great shape and are healthy but I have a deep bite (that's when your top teeth cover your bottom teeth when your mouth is closed. A deep bite is not to be confused with an over bite). So with her recommendation I went to see an orthodontist needless to say, I'll be getting braces to correct the problem. I'm going to feel so weird because I'll be 28 on Saturday and this coming Monday I'll be a 28 year old man WITH braces lol............no smiling for a whole year!!! Ok it's not that serious, no smiling for a day or 2. Have a great weekend and Happy Valentine's Day.

Ask away!!

Getting to know someone is hard. So you ask me ANYTHING, the only catch is you only get three questions so use them wisely. I'll answer them honestly.

Wash your motherf*#$ing hands

OK so I just had a Seinfeld moment. I was in the admin office heating up my lunch and one of the nurses that I work with was in the restroom..............no big deal right?! Well think again, she came out of the restroom and rinsed off (NOT WASHED) her hands. I said hi and tried to slide out of her way quickly but she patted me on the shoulder..........she got me y'all and now I have box juice on my sweater I just know it!!!

You would think since she's a nurse she would wash her hands after using the restroom but I guess not! I'm really freaked out because anyone that knows me knows that I'm a germophobe.

What would you have done if it happened to you?

Thoughts?!

There comes a time

I've been a witness to a certain behavior by a few parents around me and I'm always left with the question, "do you really love your child/children?". I'm a firm believer in the saying "having a child DOESN'T make you a parent". I've been witness to people screaming at their kids, "spanking" them, and just saying mean things. The parent must take notice that when a child acts out it's usually to have some sort of attention from their parent(s) because usually they go ignored until they've fuck up. So this year I've made it my mission to become an advocate for these children because they are people too and deserve better.

Have you even witnessed child abuse (verbal or physical)?

Thoughts?!

You Complete Me

Simply put, I feel this way about you!

This is so cool

Ok since the beginning of '09 I've been on a mission to lose some weight and tone my body up. (I've lost about 3 pounds so far but my body has changed from what I can see.) I was watching TV the other day and saw a commercial about this weightloss challenge. I decided to check it out, because I figured if I'm keeping a daily log of what I'm doing it will work and it has. So I'm going to pass on the info to you in the hopes that it will help.


Check out www.50millionpounds.com

I Am Blessed

GOD has kept me here for a reason. I've survived because he has a plan for me. All my bad relationships, the death of my loved ones, the back stabbing from my friends, the negative thoughts or lack of support, I've made it because I am truly blessed. I release and let go of all past hurts, misunderstandings, and grudges because I am blessed!